When it comes to creating an intimate space, a safe container for sexual connection and sensual expression, divine union and microcosmic connection, it is important to recognise how it plays such a valuable role in the whole experience.
It is all about the senses. How does it feel? See, taste, touch, hear, smell.
Creating a safe space to feel comfortable for one another to connect openly, authentically. Feeling calm, connected, conscious. By creating a sacred space it allows the intimacy to deepen, as you can expand further into pleasure.
Some checkpoints to consider when creating space for intimate play-
What is the lighting like? Think soft, smooth, warm lighting. Candles, lamps, starlight.
How does the space look? Think free of clutter, clean, calm on the eyes. Soft, or sturdy natural tones are a great base pallet to go from.
What is the dominant smell? Incense, oil burners, sage and perfumes. Arousing, sensual smells.
What can you hear? Think sexy tunes, serenaded by nature, singing bowls in the background.
Importantly ensuring that you feel safe to open, to freely feel and breathe.
How does the space FEEL?